Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Is it wrong to want a father figure as a boyfriend?

I want a man who's older-someone who can keep me safe. I need to feel safe with someone.





Is this not what a relationship is supposed to be?Is it wrong to want a father figure as a boyfriend?
yes.


it is wrong.Is it wrong to want a father figure as a boyfriend?
no its not,but bare in mind...the guy u are looking for has to respecte u first then the feeling of being safe is a mutuale part in a relationship,yes i am older then my girlfriend and the way i talk and listen to her is a part of being secur and she feels safe,yes this is what a relationship is supposed to be 100%....if your men respectes u and pays attention to u all the time its a good sign to know where u are headed!...
Well...as women we like for a man to make us feel safe and protected. On the other hand the father figure is throwing me off. Just look at the man as a strong aggressive type and allow yourself to be the nurturing sensitive type and it will work out naturally...but just allow him to be the man.
If you're looking for someone who is older and will keep you safe then you aren't really looking for a father figure, you're looking for a mature strong man. And I totally agree, that is exactly what I want.
Nothing wrong to feel that way. Most girls feel the same.


It is one of the ways a relationship may build and last, but not necessarily the only way.
Well its whatever you want and are happy with, try it and if you like it than that's great, but if not than try something different. Like I said though its whatever you like not what anyone else thinks or likes.
its right to feel safe but what if his not looking for a daughter figure girlfriend.
I think it is fine what you're looking for. Nothing wrong with that.
Sure it is.
no that isnt wrong
i think its ok


every girl has her prefrences
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